On Saturday, May 26th, 2012 Hadhrat Mufti Ebrahim Desai Sahib conducted the second session on marriage related problems. He expounded that marriage is a commitment and a solemn promise for a lifelong relationship. He urged women to approach marital obligations carefully and with due diligence. Bricks put together make a house. Hearts put together make a home. Bricks separated break a house. Broken hearts break a home. There are certain things that are Fardh (compulsory) to do in a marriage and certain things are Harām (prohibited) in a marriage. Hadhrat Mufti Sahib elaborated on two important issues:
- 1) Know the temperament of your husband and adjust accordingly. His heart is like a battery with power and life in it.You need to extract that hidden love from him.
- 2) Express love for your husband to the extent that he believes you truly love him.
Love begets love.
Mufti Saheb then presented beautiful examples of how Sayyidah Aisha Radhi Allahu Anha expresses her love for Rasulullah Sallallāhu Alayhi Wasallam.
What are the consequences of not knowing your husband and not showing him love?
Hear the complete lecture here: